By Hilary Metcalfe
I used to think exhaustion was just aboutĀ lack of sleep. But after becoming a mum, I learned that exhaustion lives in the body, not just the mind.
It wasnāt just the sleepless nightsāit was the constant thirst that never seemed to go away, the lightheadedness after long feeding sessions, the way my hands would shake if I forgot to eat properly. I felt like I was running on empty, no matter how much I tried to rest.
No one had told me that breastfeeding depletes more than just energyāit drains essential minerals, electrolytes, and hydration at a rate thatās impossible to keep up with unless you actively replenish it.
Iād down a glass of water and still feel thirsty. Iād eat a meal and still feel shaky. And I started to realise that what my body really needed wasnāt just food and waterāit was deep, targeted nourishment.
The truth is, breastfeeding demands more from the body than many realise. And without the right support, that depletion turns into long-term exhaustion, hormone imbalances, and burnout.
So letās talk about what actually helps.
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Why Hydration & Nutrition Are Everything in Postpartum Recovery
š” Breastfeeding burns an extra 500ā700 calories per day, meaning if a mum isnāt eating enough nutrient-dense food, sheās running on a constant energy deficit.
š” Breast milk is 87% waterāmeaning every feed pulls hydration from the mother, and simple water alone isnāt enough to replenish lost electrolytes and minerals.
š” Postpartum estrogen levels remain low, which affects blood sugar stabilityācausing energy crashes, mood swings, and that āemptyā feeling even after eating.
So when a breastfeeding mum says sheās exhausted, thirsty, or constantly hungry, itās not just tirednessāitās her body asking for more than sheās giving it.
The best thing she can do? Replenishādeeply, intentionally, and consistently.
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The Power of Infusions: Hydration That Actually Restores
Water alone doesnāt cut itābecause breastfeeding depletes minerals, not just fluids. What a mum actually needs is hydration that works harder, with ingredients that help restore, replenish, and rebalance.
Thatās why I created The SABI Breastfeeding Herbataānot just as a tea, but as a tool for true postpartum nourishment.
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Moringa, which has been shown to increase milk supply and provide iron & calcium to counteract postpartum depletion.
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Oat straw, rich in B vitamins and magnesium, which supports nervous system recovery and relaxation.
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Fennel & cinnamon, which help stabilise blood sugar, preventing postpartum energy crashes.
This isnāt just teaāitās a motherās safety net, designed to bring her body back into balance after every feed.
Alongside this, I always recommend The SABI Mama Infusions Setāa selection of herbal blends that provide support for energy, relaxation, and postpartum recovery.
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Electrolytes: The Missing Link in Breastfeeding Fatigue
Iāll never forget the first time I drank an electrolyte-rich drink instead of just plain waterāit was like my body finally got what it had been asking for.
Most people think dehydration means you just need more water, but in reality, if youāre missing electrolytes like sodium, potassium, and magnesium, your body canāt hold onto the water you drink.
This is why so many breastfeeding mums feel constantly thirsty, no matter how much they drink.
Some of the best ways to naturally replenish electrolytes include:
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Coconut water, which contains potassium, sodium, and natural sugars to help with postpartum recovery.
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Himalayan salt + lemon in warm water, a quick and natural way to restore sodium levels and prevent dizziness.
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Electrolyte powders without artificial additives, which can instantly improve hydration and energy levels.
I always suggest adding an electrolyte drink alongside herbal infusions to create the perfect hydration balance for breastfeeding mums.
One of my favourites? Wild Nutritionās Breastfeeding Supportāa UK-based brand with clean, bioavailable minerals designed specifically for postpartum mums.
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Collagen & Nutrient-Dense Supplements for Deep Nourishment
Breastfeeding pulls collagen, calcium, and omega-3s from a mumās body to support milk production. This is why many new mums notice:
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Hair loss (caused by a drop in estrogen and collagen depletion).
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Joint aches & postpartum stiffness (due to lower calcium levels).
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Skin dryness & increased fine lines (from a lack of essential fatty acids).
To counteract this, nutrient-dense supplements can make a massive difference. Some of the best include:
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Collagen peptides, which help rebuild postpartum skin, hair, and connective tissue.
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Omega-3 fish oil, which supports brain function, mood stability, and reduces postpartum inflammation.
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Iron-rich foods or supplements, to prevent the fatigue and brain fog caused by postnatal iron depletion.
One of my go-to postpartum essentials? Ancient + Brave True Collagenāa clean, high-quality collagen powder that supports skin, hair, and postpartum recovery.
For omega-3s, I love Bare Biology Life & Soul Omega-3āa UK-based, sustainably sourced fish oil that helps with postpartum brain fog, mood, and hormonal balance.
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Nourishing a Mum Is the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do
A thriving baby starts with a thriving mother. And a mother can only give what she has to give.
Hydration, minerals, and deep nourishment arenāt luxuriesātheyāre survival tools. Theyāre the difference between a mum feeling depleted, drained, and disconnectedāor feeling rested, strong, and capable of showing up fully.
So if youāre looking for a way to support a breastfeeding mum, donāt just ask how the baby is doingāask if sheās drinking enough, eating enough, feeling enough like herself.
And if sheās not? Bring her the things that will help. A tea blend that replenishes. An electrolyte drink that revives. A supplement that restores whatās been lost.
Because a nourished mum isnāt just better at breastfeedingāsheās better at feeling like herself again.
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HORMONAL & PROUD
Created as a brand to help women navigate the toughest moments in pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum ā and practically every stage of life āā The SABI is changing the narrative around our hormones from one of taboo, embarrassment, and loneliness to awareness and even, pride. As more than a wellness brand, The SABI offers a carefully-crafted line of products to carry you through your hormonal journey, including rituals, supportive tools, and ancient herbal remedies that have been tested time and time again by women and now come backed by medicine. The SABI is a blend of science and nature conceived by women who have experienced the joys and deep struggles of bringing a child into the world, the pains of a heavy, difficult period, miscarriage, and difficulty conceiving.
We invite you to get to know your body and its cycles better āā to really understand what is going on inside. Learn to use your hormones to your advantage no matter your stage of life, and know that you can support and balance your hormone levels. We are here to help with the information, understanding and natural tools to support your body and the emotional process along with it.